I thought I had been in love a few times until it actually happened.

Back in 2017 I randomly met someone, she approached me and we struck up a friendship which eventually became more, so these things go. And I actually fell in love for the first time.

I wasn’t in a good place emotionally and she saved me in a way, however the negative place I was in probably helped seal the fate of the relationship, despite the promises we made of ‘forever’, as things go. Still do for me as it isn’t something that is undertaken lightly.

This relationshiop spanned over half a decade, until it didn’t (a couple of years ago).

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The one thing I guess I came here to post, as it has been on my mind today, more so than it has been in a while… is that:

From my experience; and I have some – There is only one love of your life, and if that person is no longer in your life for whatever reason, that never changes.

No matter how many years or the circumstances.

That one person is the one and always will be.

So nurture that love and make sure you treasure it. It might not last from the other side of the equation, but if it is truly ‘the one’; regrets are pointless, yet painful and you want to do everything you can to make sure the love of your life doesn’t fall away from you, through things you could have easily prevented.